FRIENDS ARE FOREVER
We have a lot of relationships in our lifetime like the relationship with our parents, those with our partners,those with our families and so on. But there is only one relationship that we seldom have time for. Even though there are those who claim that they are all for it and some actually live each moment by its code, it is sad to see that many of us take it for granted.
That is the relationship we share with our FRIENDS and this post describes all of those who have let it fade due to pressure,work and love. Finding a friend is not hard,it is something we, as humans do instinctively, but keeping a friend with you is really very difficult.
When you were in school, your gang of friends may seem to change the World with your radical ideas but then there really was not that hindered the relationship. In college, you and your friends may have experienced the way of growing up and the change that accompanied it - the clothes,the music,the opinions and the freedom. Though the future was uncertain,there was a lot of optimism that you would help each other out. But here is where things changed. Falling in Love makes us spend less time with our friends. Then comes the engagement in which our friends take the back seat, and sometimes vanishing forever, becoming nothing more than sweet memories.
But there are two sides to every story. While friends will stay with you,some don't justify the beauty of the relationship and sometimes you tend to be the loser. There are others who will catch you always whenever you fall. And those are the people who deserve nothing but the best from you as a friend.
This is one of the articles in "The Hindu" which I liked the most!
That is the relationship we share with our FRIENDS and this post describes all of those who have let it fade due to pressure,work and love. Finding a friend is not hard,it is something we, as humans do instinctively, but keeping a friend with you is really very difficult.
When you were in school, your gang of friends may seem to change the World with your radical ideas but then there really was not that hindered the relationship. In college, you and your friends may have experienced the way of growing up and the change that accompanied it - the clothes,the music,the opinions and the freedom. Though the future was uncertain,there was a lot of optimism that you would help each other out. But here is where things changed. Falling in Love makes us spend less time with our friends. Then comes the engagement in which our friends take the back seat, and sometimes vanishing forever, becoming nothing more than sweet memories.
But there are two sides to every story. While friends will stay with you,some don't justify the beauty of the relationship and sometimes you tend to be the loser. There are others who will catch you always whenever you fall. And those are the people who deserve nothing but the best from you as a friend.
This is one of the articles in "The Hindu" which I liked the most!